Thanks everyone. Yes, pretty much the replies I expected.

We had friends over yesterday. I spent most of the day cooking on the grill. W was again extremely nice, helpful, etc.

Her comment about me seeing other women makes sense now. It wasn't like she's giving me a hall pass or anything. It was more like 'if we decide to go through with the D but still have to live together for a bit, I'd understand if you met someone else in that time'. Not that that makes it any better or worse.

I'm guessing we'll talk about things at some point this week.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14