Thanks everyone. Yes, pretty much the replies I expected.
We had friends over yesterday. I spent most of the day cooking on the grill. W was again extremely nice, helpful, etc.
Her comment about me seeing other women makes sense now. It wasn't like she's giving me a hall pass or anything. It was more like 'if we decide to go through with the D but still have to live together for a bit, I'd understand if you met someone else in that time'. Not that that makes it any better or worse.
I'm guessing we'll talk about things at some point this week.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14