I've got a question for the experts here (although I'm pretty sure I know the answer already).
You’ve receive some wise counsel from the posters. Did it align with your views and thoughts?
Originally Posted by Terapin
how would I know if these things are legit signs she's reconsidering D, or just part of her cohabitation plan?
Her telling you and demonstrating consistent reinforcing behaviour would be a good sign of a legit change of heart.
Presently, she likely is just playing nice so as to not be the bad guy. Especially her offer that you can see other women. There is pretty much no way she’d be ready to commit to the relationship and promote you seeing someone else. She’s looking to share the blame. Let her own her choices.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
