Last night, H sat me down and told me that he spoke to the OW and told her that it's in everyone's best interest that they no longer speak to one another.
He was not willing to discuss anything beyond that yet.
I reacted calmly and simply asked if he was ok, as he seemed to be having a hard time with it. I'm guessing he expected me to be excited but I played it very cool. I'm waiting patiently until he has the bandwidth to tell me more, because I certainly have a lot to say about what the future of our marriage looks like when he's ready to hear it.
H 41 W 36 D16 S15--my stepchildren D11--biological M 6, T 13 Bomb/EA 1/19/23 Separated but living together