My WW was sweet as punch after she made her "I don't want to be married anymore" proclamation. I even asked her about it at one point. She said she was trying not to hurt me anymore than she already had. No telling why, but if you ask her she'll reiterate that she wants a divorce.

I see no problem with cohabitation as long as you can do it and still DB. Some find in-home separation to be too difficult. To me it is an opportunity to show her your changes for the better. Some day the close proximity sets back their detachment. So there are pros and cons to both.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018