it actually upsets me a bit because I keep thinking that he is just acting business as usual not doing anything to “think” or work on himself during this time and space he has asked for, and it I think makes me feel deflated because I would rather him be working on relationship.
Just my .02 a little late,
Its not your job to worry about what HE is doing. You have been fired from that job.
Work on yourself and the posts after this one(above) are much more on the right track.
Yes move on with whatever you have to do and becoming a person that only a fool would leave. He is the fool and that will be his choice.
