Hello Wayfarer,

I was so happy to see your update when I checked in! I am not on here much anymore as many of those that supported me in my journey are absent. Anyway, I’m happy I spotted your update.

I am so happy to hear that your relationship and your family are doing so well! Your story was such an inspiration to me. Your struggles and your support really helped me in my journey. It’s so great to have read your story from beginning to end and to see that things are so good for you now! And yeah, your role played a big part in why you guys stayed together, and it’s great that he sees that and appreciates it. It certainly wasn’t easy, and I know you probably never expected to be validated for it…which makes it all the more special. Sending you lots of love and hope that your love continues to grow and blossom and that those soft pink wounds turn into old battle scars.

XO
Elbereth


Me 52, H 56
T10 M7, 2nd MR for both
2 Step Sons (19 and 21)
BD: Fall 2020
D finalized: July 2022
XH Married AP soon after D day.