I've got a question for the experts here (although I'm pretty sure I know the answer already).

When W BD'd me 3 weeks ago, during the conversation she mentioned that maybe for our son and financial sake, we could basically cohabitate for the next few months. In that time we could get the house and yard in condition to sell, pay down some debt, etc. We would keep the sitch from our son, and 'pretend' that we're the happily married couple. Hell she even said I'd be free to see other women. Anyway, just one of her many ideas.

Since BD, we have been the 'happily married couple' (for the most part). Aside from no sex, things have been really good. We've been communicating great, she's been making plans for us for months down the road, asking me to do things together, etc, etc.

So the question is, how would I know if these things are legit signs she's reconsidering D, or just part of her cohabitation plan? I'm guessing it shouldn't matter either way, but anyone have any experience with this?


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14