It sounds like things are going in the right diration for you. I am happy to hear the good news. It is great that ya are haveing more good days than bad. Form the books that I have read this is a great sign. Just keep in mind when you think the bad days are gone one will still sneak up on you every now and then. You could go monthes to year with thinking on the A and then out of the blue it pops up. It is very imporant that you learn how to deal with the feelings so it won't do damage.
Maybe the Om is calling your W because he wants to keep things stired up. But try to give W the benfit of doubt. If she is not acting wired and sneaking around to have alone time then maybe she isn't trying to conated him.
It will be a leap of faith, but sometimes that's all we can do. It is a great step that she gave you her phone to show that you can trust her. And I wouldn't push the issue about her calling him and saying it is over. She knows her limit, that call might just suck her back in. Om will get the message after awhile, chaseing someone who dosen't answer will lose it's appeal.
Keep up the good work. Rember that you have to show W that the changes are for real just not a con in getting her back. There is still a lot of work to be done, but you are on the right path is seems like.
