I’m honestly not frustrated with you at all. I see you struggling and I know exactly how feel.
I just want you to start DBing on a better level. I want to see you happy and save your marriage. However I also want to see you happy if it doesn’t happen. These tools will help not only improve your odds of saving your marriage, but they prepare you for life if you don’t.
Honest suggestion for you, unless it involves your children, come here each and every time for the next 2 weeks for what to respond with in regards to anything your W may reach out to you with. I think that in itself would be a step in a good direction. You’ll learn better responses, when to respond, and it’ll start you on a better path to dropping the rope.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
