Hey Joseph, I’m not ignoring advice. I am learning and being responsible and accountable and making counterintuitive changes as well. I am reading DR again and carefully and thoughtfully considering various perspectives and I’m finding this forum helpful and I’m very thankful.
Eldest S is a player/coach in the team as am I. D plays on the team. I picked up S21 yesterday to watch and be with family/community (I knew my family would be there).
I am soberly examining reality and am aware of consequences good and bad.