Good Morning Gerda

Originally Posted by Gerda
and the recognition that this is NUTS!

H and his antics aren’t really too demanding upon my powers of observation. Lol.

When I read about H and GF ripping out the plants, I was angry. You politely asked them not to. Even gave reasons why. Nope, they came right over and just did what they wanted. Even asked for water. Sheesh!

Well done not responding to them.

Anyhow, I did give myself a day to calm. (Sort of. smile ) Like what is going on in your part of the world. How can such utter madness get passed the judge.

Originally Posted by Gerda
S17 pointed out very wisely that if the judge gave him 120 days, and we don't think he can get more than market value for the place, that it means I will finally be done in 120 days, so I guess that's pretty wise and true.

Smart lad you’ve raised there.

Originally Posted by Gerda
These are the last four months of S17 being home with me before college…

Wow. Sure flies by.

How close is the college? Hours or days away?

Nice to see son has the next steps/stage of his life kind of planned out. I’m sure he is excited to embrace it.

Originally Posted by Gerda
LESSON -- You cannot rationalize with irrational people. The MLCer or Narcissist or whatever he is is will do his absolute worst to sabotage absolutely everything until the last possible moment, no matter how much it is against his own interests. Maybe your MLCer is going through something and will come out of it. BUT CUT ALL FINANCIAL TIES THE SECOND YOU HAVE THE CHANCE! Or you will end up like poor little Gerda AKA Brave Little Gerda AKA Persistent Little Gerda.

Very wise words my friend.

For those reading along, listen to Gerda. You cannot rationalize with irrational people. If you need financial protection or security, get it.

Have a great day Gerda.

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