I’m still so lost

[Pattnee5]

Wow Steve 😀Thankyou for your advice you are a wealth of knowledge. So very true I completely get he is basically part time getting the best bits without the responsibilities and can reside at night to his own area and do whatever he wants while I hold down the household, listen to kids fighting, organise their school day for the following day, stop the dog chasing the cat and eating out of the litter tray etc. it [censored] it really does. I stopped him having dinner here and def stopped him coming around for games and hanging out at night with us to play board games or whatnot so I guess that’s a good start 😀I’ll get better I promise
I didn’t even think of the whole drop dead date. That was December for me. But yes I think that’s reasonable I can’t be in limbo for years I do like that idea. May I ask how did your story end up? I’m so sorry your Wife did that to you.