Boy, there doesn't seem to be nearly as much traffic around here as a few years ago!

W has been much nicer, more talkative, etc the past few days. Way more than pre BD. I know that means absolutely nothing though. I"m still thinking about her divorce 'spreadsheets' that I saw last night. I feel like if D is a given, I'm really 10 steps behind her.

We have a funeral tomorrow. I'll be there for the day, and supportive in any way. It will still be weird being around her family, knowing that they're aware of our sitch.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14