Logic and reason are telling you no remorse, she still works with OM and wants to slide back into the marriage is a recipe for disaster. Emotion is telling you she is staying so that makes me feel safe in my comfortable marriage. I don’t want to do or say anything to upset her.
When decisions are made based on emotion there is sure to be consequences.
That's basically correct. I do want to do or say something because I am aware it is a recipe for disaster if I don't. Just not sure what to do. Push for IC or MC? With my father in laws current health issues, this is terrible timing for anything too drastic. She is stressed out over his future. That is why I am thinking carry on for now and see what happens with him. I also don't want to give her a false sense that I am ok with her lack of interest in what needs to be done.
