Yep, it’s a conscious purposeful effort. And not intuitive for most folks. In time, it does become more second nature.
Purposeful control of that which you can control will influence and build these instinctive responses. You won’t abolish your caring and compassionate demeanour, more refine it.
Quite the journey isn’t it?
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
