So, I thought that I would pop in for a quick update. The third anniversary of BD has come and gone. She withdrew the divorce petition and never refiled. I have not filed either. She texts me a lot these days. Sometimes I respond. Often I don't. There's nothing to indicate that she's ever considered reconciliation. She blames me for the divorce. She is still very angry with me and continues to plan her forever with OM. But we're still legally married. I don't understand why.
However, life is good and I'm forever grateful for DBing and the advice. I think it's why I found a way to be happy again so soon.
