No do not contact him. You are trying to exert control over that which you have no control. Likely he'll become angry and do whatever he wants to do. It he'll placate you and do whatever he wants. So focus on what you CAN control. Being the best mom that you possibly can for D! That's within your control. WAH is completely out of your control including whether or but he offloads to D or not.

Remember, focus on what your can control. Let go of what you cannot.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018