Another thing-during a convo concerning my father in law somehow the subject if R came up. It was a week ago, don’t remember exactly how it came up. She made the comment that we are ok. Didn’t pursue what that meant. Things have been pretty good. I think she is working on just sweeping everything under the rug and going back to the way things were. Not sure how to proceed. I don’t want anymore drama. Things can’t just go back to the old ways.