You delivering the mattress for her is 100% unnecessary. This is another example of you not listening to advice and than a stream of post with reasons why it’s needed. How it’s really a 180 etc etc etc.
You can’t nice her back, you’ve been told this, you continue to try and you are at the point where you are defending helping her move out. Let that sink in. You’ve niced her right into moving her out and helping her.
It’s your journey, but your actions won’t lead you to your end game goals.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
