Ok, I need some immediate advice if anyone's out there!
Wife's grandmother has been ill (she's in her 90s). W just said this morning that she's in ICU and is now just receiving comfort care. I was on my way to work when I found out (45 minutes away). W is heading to hospital now, and taking our son with her to say his goodbyes.
What do I do? I always liked her grandma, and if our sitch was different I'd be rushing over there. But IDK if W wants me there (since she told her parents about D), or if I'd be looked at as the biggest dick in the world if I didn't go. What should be my role today, as well as moving forward (funeral, etc)?
Please help!
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
