Some of the things she claimed to really want she didn’t even take.
Yep, they have no idea what they want or what they need. That’s what waywards/walkaways are like. Change their mind more often than the wind, and fight over things they don’t want just because they don’t want us to have them.
Mine told me she wanted to keep all the wedding photos. What, to show to your new boyfriend? 🤣🤣🤣
Originally Posted by URS0
Is this the end of the road? I don’t want to believe that it is but I am also feeling emotionally exhausted after 5 months of confusion.
Or was the road you were on a corrugated piece of sh*t?
And perhaps this is the start of a much better road, and a much smoother journey from here on?
The principles around DBing do not stop when your marriage does. They make you a more independent, confident, grounded and self-aware person. They make you a better listener. They make you a better future partner. Plus, you can leave your marriage knowing, hand-on-heart, that you did everything to try and save it. Double down on the DBing, counselling, exercise and GAL activities.
Hang in there URS0. Trust me when I say it gets better 💙