She asked which car I want and I told her. I thought she would bring these things up and we could discuss. I was waiting for her to do so rather then spoon feeding her this information. To do otherwise felt counter to DB principles; trying to let her take her own journey. Seems like she did not feel comfortable telling me which car she wants or discussing it at all. I’m guessing a lot of this is driven by guilt knowing it would be an imposition on me to take off with the newer car.
Again, I would guess she hasn’t thought this far ahead. She won’t be taking the car for at least a month when she moves to her new apartment. I will give her some time to process things once she has officially moved out this week and if I haven’t heard anything for a fee weeks I will bring up my concerns with safety and discuss giving her equivalent of the vehicles value.
