The hardest part is that I know she is going to struggle. To the point that I am legitimately concerned. She agreed to take the older car with no argument. She did not start driving until last year and will be living in a city where she will not regularly be using a car. She has no idea how much auto insurance will cost her or experience going about attaining something like that. I struggle to see why she would even want a car. It is certainly her right and I don’t dispute that. It feels like an attempt to have some sense of control. It is old enough - and considering her lack of driving history - that I am very worried about her trying to get it thousands of miles to her new location. I know I need to move past those types of worries since she has fired me from being her spouse but it could blow back on me if an issue arises mid-journey. Obviously in her current state of mind these glaring issues aren’t even on her radar and I don’t know how to deal with that.
