I do have another question. Financially we're not in a great place, and if we go through with D, I'm going to need every penny I can get. But when it comes to GAL stuff like golfing, going to a restaurant, buying some new clothes, etc, all that stuff obviously costs money. How did you guys handle that? Both of our paychecks get direct deposited into a mutual account. If I take $60 to go golfing, I imagine she'd be like "hey, we're supposed to be cutting back and saving money for D", and to be honest, she'd be right. Again, if you were in a similar sitch, how'd you handle it?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
