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Good feedback on filing. Not only may our son 'blame' me, but family, friends, etc may also.

I don't think I will at this time, with the limited information I have. Now if/when an affair comes to light, then that's a different story.

As for lawyers, in her 20s she worked as a legal secretary for divorce lawyer. So that is who she'd use if necessary.

Yogi Berra said 'it's like deja vu all over again'. I'm trying to think back to her words/actions years ago, but I swear I blocked a lot of that period out. But it is eerily similar. The only difference so far is, the last time, she spent a lot of time 'going out'. Maybe not a lot, but she would go to hang out with mutual friends, because OM was there. I was clueless.