If divorce is not a moral issue for you then yes it can be advantageous to file. Make sure though. Ive seen some LBHs that were the ones to file even though it was their wife walking away, and later regretted it because the kids blamed them. "You were the one that filled for D!"

So be sure. For me I was going to give it a year before filing. That way I could look my D in the eyes and say I tried everything I could for a year before I filed.

Also remember, filing is not the end. It's a step on the process, a process that could still end in another reconciliation.

Last edited by DnJ; 04/19/23 01:36 PM. Reason: Corrected typo.
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