You need to learn to get comfortable and unaffected by her being upset/angry/a bitch.
This is an important skill to master: Maintain a calm and content emotional state no matter how the other persons emotional state is. You are an emotional rock for the woman in your life.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
