None of us would be here if we didn't have enough you-know-what in our lives. I know I do. I come here for support, suggestions and sometimes lovingly given correction. I am saddened by the mudslinging. I am saddened by burdening anyone by any additional ugliness. The thing is, we don't know each other, not really. Our ability to verbalize our thoughts may not be as good as the next person's, and we may come across as something we aren't.
So... I am going to try to treat others as I want to be treated. I know I don't want to be personally attacked here... I get enough of that from the man that promised to love, honor and respect me.
I will remember what we have in common... a desire to do what others won't, to bear up under incredible stress to try to save our Ms. Some of us will be successful, some of us are experiencing unbearable, apparently never ending pain. I think we all want the same thing, to live our lives abundantly, to the full and to know that we did all we could do to try to save our marriages and support each other in doing that.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
You people turned a simple friendly and fun topic of screen names and turned it into a cat fight.
You ALL should be ashamed of yourselves.
Yeah, this BB is for venting, but its venting about our sitchs, not about one another.
If we all practiced our DB knowledge on each other, this BB would be a better place.
But right now, its not, and THAT's why you don't see me, UD, Pam and Meredith posting.
Not to mention that most of us have circumstances going on in our lives that we simply can not see getting support here cause people are too busy fighting each other.
Simple people, if you don't like the thread or the person, stay away.
Oh yeah, and don't use other people's threads to air your discontent and then run. Sounds like something my XW would do.
Michelle, I am sorry your BB has turned into a circus.
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
