Pack you have come a long way. Keep going. The road to greatness doesn't have an end, there is no finish line. So enjoy the journey because that is all any of us has.
I don't think you have to say anything to your son about moving on. Just do it. He will see your actions and how you are showing up in the world. Remember you are an example to him of what a man is, how a man conducts himself. It's a great responsibility (no pressure LOL).
Don't get sidetracked inside your head re your ex bringing OM around the kids. You can't stop it. Accept it will happen. They have one father and that's you my friend. Be the man. There are ways to deal with any negative influences that OM and/or your ex have on the kids. I have some experience with this re my ex. The good people on this board will provide direction if that happens. Unless and until it does, don't worry about. Be a strong and dominant role model and influencer yourself such that others pale in comparison.
Good luck, keep going.
This is going to be one of those posts that I read multiple times until it sinks in my brain, thanks Gekko. I am going to lead an amazing life, teach S9 and S5 all I have learned since I joined this forum when the time comes and I will ensure they want to be close to me without me having to ask. Maybe someday I get a new chance to move abroad, maybe I meet someone here and I settle down, maybe I remain single for years to come... whatever comes I will be able to face it and enjoy it because I am a new man and I am a fantastic father and work in progress in my sexual kung-fu
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
