I have been going out and being busy and sticking to communicating with W about S21 and bills. I have been cooperative and neutrally relaxed about her using stuff and have made it clear it’s important she talks to me before removing things from our home. I have also helped move some things for her with my truck.
I do like the idea of buying one of my own if I want something she takes. I had previously mentioned I could deliver the spare bed to her when I said I would have to think about her statement “I think I want our (M) bed.”