Thanks Steve, really good reality check there. I was doingvreally well with Dbing & am fortunate in that I came across this forum before I asked him to leave the house & before I found out about OW for certain so been pretty much trying to DB from early days. Interestingly, I wonder if that is what has brought him back trying to offer me breadcrumbs? I shed a small tear today thinking of who he is now v's who he was then & how gullible I've been but didn't get sucked into emotional brain at all.

I've dusted myself down and back to DBing! I've messaged a friend about going out at the weekend and am about to book an amazing holiday for me & D(16) to celebrate her finishing school exams & give her a nice tan for prom! All is good & as my title suggests, I'm still learning the ropes.


H - 52 Me -53
M - 20yrs T - 26 yrs
S 19, D 16