now she said she definitely wants a divorce and went and talked to a lawyer. Does that mean it is over for sure? I wonder if there is any chance I can stop this? what can I do, if anything?
Her company has insurance where she can hire a lawyer pretty cheap but it is going to cost me 5K for a retainer. She says she is willing to be fair and wants me to just use her lawyer so we can save money but what if I get taken advantage of?