Thanks for sharing the details. The specifics help us know you better.
Making the positive changes is a never ending process for me. My BD was back in 2008, so I have been at this for like 15 years. I try and figure out what my weakest area is and work on that. Relationships with other people help shine a light on my issues.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712