Purpose Grounded masculine power Kindness Confidence Interests Intrigue Ability to take care of a woman
Rate each of these on a scale from 0-180 how much different you are now behaving from your behavior before arriving here. This is just an exercise in self awareness.
Do you have Humor in your list? Do you make most women you interact with laugh? What about the men? Laughter is a response to surprise. Is this area that could use a 180?
One of my favorite things to do now is to always answer "challenging questions" with an over the top YES. For example:
My beard is mostly grey, with some brown. I will color parts to make it more symmetrical. While out this past weekend, one of the guys asked "Is that just for men?"...My immediate response was an enthusiastic "Why yes it is!" with a big grid on my face. Not the response most guys would give. The other guy got a chuckle at my response.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712