From the outside looking in on your situation.....
It seems that there is ALWAYS a reason or an excuse that you are running into her. And even if you are simply finding yourself in coincidental situations....
You are still finding an excuse to engage her in conversation....
Hey, that Badger over there is kinda cute, I think that I'll go over and pet it !!!
There's a reason you don't hear more people saying that.....
Even IF you do find yourself around her.....stop engaging in conversation with her.....
From the outside, it still appears that you feel that you can "fix" this....
And being passive aggressively, manipulatingly available to just show up to functions that you feel she may be at....
Would you rather she be saying.....
Schidt, Rock is here again...
Or thinking....
I wonder where Rock is ???
I get why you think that you were there, yet you will always find a reason/excuse if you don't start "checking" your motives and reasons by being brutally honest with yourself..
And didn't "thinking" help get you here in the first place ??
Yea, she said she wasn't going to any social functions....
