Mar 21

Originally Posted by Kind18
You are literally like a drug addict who gets told time and time again not to interact with her

Apr 03

Originally Posted by Rockon
Ran into W at a party. Considered she might be there given a common circle of our friends. I had a great time. Ended up having a brief social convo with her and that was fine then I moved on to continue enjoying myself.

I see you couldn’t help yourself and went back for another drug hit.

Originally Posted by Kind18
I’d highly recommend you Google “YouTube transactional analysis ego states and basic transactions” and watch the three videos in the series.

It might give you some insight into how she continues to psychologically run rings around you, and how you can break the mould of your cr*p interactions.. Please let me know your thoughts on these three videos.

I guess going to stalk her at a party under the guise of “Randomly bumped into her” or “No contact is not my IC’s strategy” is EASIER than staying at home and doing the work required.

Watch the videos Rock. Nothing’s changing because you’re doing the same old things.

Good luck!