Good for you. Keep focusing on you and living life.
H may be struggling greatly with working on his decision, or he may be running from it, or something in between. Leave him to it. Not your circus, not your monkeys.
Personally, I suspect H is wracked. The less ammo you provide the more he has to look at things. Guilt, regret, and such are near impossible to run from. Especially in the still dark of night while laying in bed. It’s when one’s demons come out to play.
Keep giving time and space, and being pressure-free.
How was the overnight trip? Nice hotel? Good food? Fun time?
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
