I second. If you name yourself ‘desperate’, ‘lonely’, ‘sad’, etc on the board, you clearly see yourself as such. And, don’t you think your spouse does too? What a turn off…
Since the process of DB is working on yourself and how you portray yourself, I am always shocked to see the number of degrading names on the board!
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian