I just re-read the thread myself as I had a conversation with the author and there are some excerpts in the thread about that conversation that I had forgotten.
Basically he thought he was a pursurer and his advice is to STOP pursuing.
Also that is easier said than done.
I am done with pursuing. But what is the best way to communicate technical details without her thinking this is pursuing? I neither want to pursue, nor even give her ANY potential impression that my responses are pursuing.
Stick to business. Don't even use traditional greetings and closings. No "Hi, hope you're well." No "thanks, talk later". Etc. Strictly the technical details. If you need help, come here first with what you need to communicate and we can help you word it.
Remember, less words not more.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
