Well, the relationship i ended up in was.......worse.
We got together in October of 2019, Moved in together March of 2020 (Covid sped that up), She kicked me and my son out in November of 2020, She dated another guy from Jan to July of 2021, and we reconciled and my son and i moved back in in Sept of 2021. We did good for a while, even got engaged in June of 2022. Then shortly after that she began to pull away again, and she bugged out and kicked us out again in Sept of this year. We had a brief reconnect in January, and now shes Dating another guy again.
And the wheel rolls onward....
OK, sorry. Relationships are difficult. No question.
I guess the question I have for you is why you continue to hold on so tight? Imagine the pain that could have been saved if you had moved on from her after November 2020? I know at the time we think the person we are infatuated with is the best thing in the world and we will die if we don't save things with them. But you've been through it before, and you know there are other options out there.
Kick the dust off your feet and be thankful! If she is this flaky now imagine what she would be like after marrying her! Marriage has a way of amplifying problems not making them better.
You've guy this, OK! Go back to the basics. Get a life. 180s. Detachment. For you to move forward, not to try to save things with this woman.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
