To me it seems that she is in so much pain that she wants to stop it badly immediately. She is fully projecting it on to me and I am becoming the single reason for all of her problems. Does the pain truly stop with the divorce?
YUP
and
the pain will not change with the divorce as the marriage is just a casualty of the divorce war. Her root cause of pain is anyone other that the real cause - ie - point the finger at herself.
I think you did well - continue to follow your lawyers advice.
