Dunn, A lot of vets have stopped coming here. This is not the same place it was back when I started coming here in 2015. Back then, disagreements were viewed as opportunities to grow. I cannot speak for anyone else, but I will speak for myself. There is nothing here for me any more. What was once a refuge and welcoming place is now something quite different. People don't necessarily stay where they aren't valued as anything more than a resource for newcomers.
You get out what you put in. Put nothing in - get nothing out
And then there is the issue of paying it forward. Most of the vets have paid more than their fair share of that.