Unfortunately, it was really hard for me to pick between some of the two choices based on my relationship with my W over the last 15 or so years. I need to relearn some of the stuff that I really want versus what I really don’t want. but the results I can still agree with overall. I wonder if I get into a healthier relationship and take the test again how my results would differ. Or take the test after I read the book, to see how much the results would differ.
My top two (quality time and physical touch) were not being met with W
Yes this dynamic is generally what lands people here. She wasn’t meeting your needs so you weren’t motivated to meet hers. The resentment builds on both ends and it’s just a matter of time before someone pulls the rip cord first. This dynamic is something to keep in mind in your future relationships.
