DnJ, Cadet, & R2C - thank you for the welcome messages.

W texted me today for the first time in a week asking about possible dates to come home and move packed things out of our home. Using our home as a storage facility until a more convenient time was a boundary violation for me in the absence of a framework to work on the relationship in the meantime.

I'm under no illusion there is some perfect response. It is just strange for me as this is the first time I have received a message since having changed gears to detaching. I don't want to respond but I know that is childish. I guess a simple "yes, that works" will do.