Just drop the expectations that your IC is solely responsible for "fixing" you....
Fixing you, is totally up to you, and you alone....
And it's never a bad time to do the work.....
Too very true. Some people spend years in IC simply spewing BS and never looking inwards to do the real work.
Don't be one of those people.
So true with my mom. She went 7 years with her IC on her last stint. Kept telling us children she is better now. None of us saw the changes. She never got healthier. It is like she went, listened to what the IC said which made her happy temporarily, and never fix herself. Now she is in her later years seeing me get better and expressing a lot of guilt. Yesterday she told me she has an appointment with her IC and bought the self esteem book I’m reading. Never too late.
Life is about you and only you. You’re courageous just for getting on here. For GAL. The next step is you.
Ayep....
IF they "fix" you, who is paying their bills ???
If they keep you "broken" , that's job security for them...
Originally Posted by Rock
Ok here’s indication of growth and progress for me:
When all this went down and even before I would get stressed preparing meals, trying to get everything ready, delicious and presentable at the same time. I just finished making dinner (it’s really good chicken, rice and veggies) and I took 3 wheelbarrow loads of soil into the back yard while it was cooking.
I guess I'm missing the point here....
Could you only do 2 loads of soil before ?
Only cook the rice and veggies before (and not the chicken) ???
Maybe I need new batteries in my super secret Rock de-coder pen....
