Just drop the expectations that your IC is solely responsible for "fixing" you....
Fixing you, is totally up to you, and you alone....
And it's never a bad time to do the work.....
Too very true. Some people spend years in IC simply spewing BS and never looking inwards to do the real work.
Don't be one of those people.
So true with my mom. She went 7 years with her IC on her last stint. Kept telling us children she is better now. None of us saw the changes. She never got healthier. It is like she went, listened to what the IC said which made her happy temporarily, and never fix herself. Now she is in her later years seeing me get better and expressing a lot of guilt. Yesterday she told me she has an appointment with her IC and bought the self esteem book I’m reading. Never too late.
Life is about you and only you. You’re courageous just for getting on here. For GAL. The next step is you.
M:51 W:43 T:17 M:15 S:13 D11 10/2022 BD/IHS 03/2023 W moves out
