Originally Posted by Rockon
Thought has been crossing my mind of informing W I am considering divorce.

I’m glad you somewhat corrected yourself in the following post.

Otherwise, the above translates into:

Thinking of attempting to manipulate my wife with a threat.

Like you said, actions > words.

If you don’t want to divorce, don’t.

If you’ve had enough and do want to divorce, don’t tell her. Just file. If you have to tell her first before you file, then you’re still not ready.