Thanks, Kind. I get it, but this situation still blows my mind.
I've seen two different opinions on this forum from quotes. One states that you should not stop wife and stall the D process. Several others have stated that you have to stick to your values, norms and do not let W dictate the rules of the game. Vets, which one has worked best from your experience?
I assume the second one as it focused more on me rather than on her.
