Just got up to speed on your weekend adventure. Boy did you drop your bucket into a deep well during the weekend!!
... and to draw the bucket back up full of water! ... to determine from within you that Mr. W has made the decision even if he doesn't know it yet! ... that has to be enpowering! ... and should help in keeping your balance for a while longer.
KAW,--I was going to ask why you were posting to me at 4 am, but then I realize that you're an hour ahead of the BB time! Thanks for your note.
Cathy--I'm thinking about MEI and what I need to say. Not ignoring your request. That's a tough one...
To my friends here, I'm sorry I haven't been posting much lately. My job is really busy, and my sister and BIL flew into town yesterday through the weekend. She came here to offer me help and support, and it took me all of 10 minutes to realize that she needs it more than I do. Trying to figure out what I can do to help her relax and wind down.
Things have been infinitely quiet with Mr. Wonderful. I just got off the phone with him to discuss our schedule this week/weekend since he's working overtime. It turns out that he's not going to be seeing the kids until Tuesday morning, and he's showing sadness about it. D10 leaves for VA next Friday for 2 weeks too.
I'm going to let him have some time in the cave. In the meantime, I'll be trying to work with my sister so that she feels more in control over the choices she has. She may not even see them as choices yet, because she and I both have a tendency to cling to the devil we know...
More on that later.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Hey Betsey, no pressure..the woman's got a lot going on as we all do here I guess, but throw in a pregnant OW. You just have such a way with words and MEI is in a tough spot. If anyone has the time check out her thread.
Boy did you drop your bucket into a deep well during the weekend!! 
Betsey