From your experience, does it mean that the only way is to divorce?
I will rephrase what is said here. Since I can not also pick lottery numbers or predict what the winning numbers will be.
Most people that come here end up divorced. Understand that the name of the board is DIVORCEBUSTING. MWD nor I believe in divorce.
Will you end up divorced? If I was a betting person I would bet YES. Is that the end of the story? Maybe yes maybe no. Here is where you get a say in this. That question is why this board is here.
One of my good friends from here divorced(a bitter contested one) and now is remarried to his spouse. Their are many examples of reconciliation and success stories.
Love is a choice and you have to choose to Love everyday. What that looks like is up to you. You can't control others - only yourself. So many of us do not choose divorce. We can choose what happens after that.
The normal advice is that the LBS gets to choose in the end. And if you have not yet gotten to choose then it is not yet the end.
I know that this is all hard stuff. All you can do right now is to make yourself into a person that only a fool would leave.
